Weight Loss Wednesday
Today I'd like to introduce you to Beth P.
Beth P. - Before
Weight & Me
I was a competitive swimmer in my younger years. I always considered myself to be a healthy person. I did gain weight after having my two daughters, and it took me a couple of years to get that weight off. I divorced when my girls were very young and started a very demanding job. For 17 years I put everyone's needs before mine. I was too busy to take care of myself. Between taking care of my kids, my parents and my job I gained over 150 pounds in 17 years. I never had time for breakfast, and worked through lunch—by the time I finished with my day, it was 8 at night and I was eating anything in sight. To make matters worse. I was addicted to Mountain Dew. I drank at least a 2-liter a day. I never had time to work out or exercise, either. I really messed up my metabolism. I read something a while ago, that is how sumo wrestlers gain weight. They do not eat all day then eat as much as they can at night. My health and body really suffered by my negligence.
The Last Straw
It was a photo that my daughter took of me in January of 2009. She invited me over to play a new game of Rock Band, with her (my before photo). She took a photo of me and posted it on MySpace. I did not recognize myself. I could not believe I had let myself go as much as I had. I had gotten to almost 300 pounds. I was horrified. I decided that day, I needed to make a drastic lifestyle change.
How I Did It
The first thing I did was to stop drinking Mountain Dew. I needed to replace it with something with caffeine or I would get headaches. So, I decided to start drinking green tea. I read that it was really good for you. I wanted to take a bad habit and replace it with a healthy one. Then I started using my son's Wii game to get some exercise. It was convenient, because I could do it at home. I watched my calorie intake and started learning how to eat better. I joined the Biggest Loser site, using a lot of their advice. It was a great site. The best thing I learned from the site is journaling. The hardest part I had was making time to exercise. I joined a gym, but could not seem to find time. Then a new gym moved in a strip mall by my house, called Anytime Fitness. It is a 24-hour gym. I made it a goal to make time. I got up every morning at 4 a.m. and worked out. Now, it is a part of my routine. That is the only time I could do it without taking away from my family. They had a weight-loss challenge class at my gym—that was a godsend. It is a 12-week course that teaches nutrition and better eating habits. You have a weight-loss coach who reviews your journal and teaches you how to properly proportion your foods. Each week she taught a new lesson on eating healthy and changing your lifestyle. We weighed in weekly, she measured us and did a bone density test also. Then if we gained weight, you had to pay a dollar for each pound gained. If you missed a class you paid, too. It keeps you accountable. At the end of the 12-week course, whoever lost the most percentage of body fat wins: first-, second- and third-place winners. Also, a most-inches-lost winner. I have won three challenges.
The Key to Success
I would say the key to my success was setting small goals to achieve your goal. My goal from the start was to get back into my wedding dress. But, I set several small goals along the way. Like, giving up pop, then exercise, then 10 pounds, etc. Each goal I made gave me more confidence to achieve the next. I also looked at it as a lifestyle change. I did not want to go on a diet. I wanted to learn how to become healthy. Something that I will do for my entire life, not for a short amount of time. I did not want to give up the foods I like. I never did. Instead I learned how to balance my food. I tried to keep my protein and carbohydrates at the same ratio, plus incorporating 20-25 grams of fiber. Which is easier said than done. That is where a food journal really comes in handy. I also learned in my class how important drinking water is. I would not have accomplished my goal without exercise. I exercise about three to six days a week. Mostly cardio. I usually do an hour on the elliptical. What a great machine. When I first started I could only do about five minutes and died. Again, make goals. I went from five minutes to one hour. The other thing that helped was to keep in mind that you are eating to live. Not … living to eat.
Derailers & Strategies
The thing that keeps me motivated is my family. I had a child later in life. My son is so proud of me. We watch The Biggest Loser together, and he tells everyone that his mommy lost more weight then the biggest loser. That makes me feel so good and keeps me motivated to make him proud. Also, I want to be around to see his children and see my grandchildren grow up. If I continued with the lifestyle I had before, I would not be around for them. The thing that sometimes gets me derailed is that I am upset with the saggy skin I have. Because I am older and have lost so much. I have what I call "angel wings" under my arms, and other parts of my body are, let's say, not too good. I sometimes feel like just giving up because I will never look "good." Now that I have lost the weight it really bothers me to wear a suit or shirt with no sleeves. It really bothers me but I cannot afford to do anything about it. Maybe by some miracle I will be able to correct that someday. I would love to have Dr. Freedland do it, but I know I could never afford him. Or Dr. Grey with “a new you." I believe in miracles. A girl can dream.
When I Slip…
I believe that everything happens for a reason. Ask my daughters, they can attest to that. I don't believe in looking back, just try to learn from your mistakes. I found that journaling and weighing in every day helped me not to have too many setbacks. If I gained I could almost always look at my journal and figure out what I did wrong.
When I Soar…
My favorite "new me" moment was a couple of weeks ago. Everyone kept telling me that I did not have to lose any more weight. But, I had not achieved my goal of 130 pounds, which was the weight I was when I married. I wore my mother's wedding dress when I married and have it on display in a table that is in our family room with a photo. I decided to see how close I was and took the dress out to try it on. To my surprise, at 143 pounds I not only fit into the dress, but it was looser then the day I got married. Because I have made such a big lifestyle change and work out daily, I have more muscle mass. So, I weight more but I am thinner than I was then. I was so excited. I have never felt better. I just wish my mom was around to see me now. Now if I could just take care of all the saggy skin, my life would be complete.
Beth P. - After

































